Wednesday, March 29, 2017

Day 110: Let me give you a piece of my mind....

Our days are happier when we give people a bit of our heart, rather than a piece of our mind.
We will rise just by lifting others.
Speak in such a way, that others love to listen to you.
Listen in such a way, that others love to speak to you.
You know it's easy to play the blame game.
Point your finger at someone else right now, you will notice that 4 of your fingers will point right back at you!
Don't play a victim, get over yourself and snap out of it, because if you don't, the only one you bother with that attitude is YOU!
I became a widow very young and I had no idea how to deal with loss.
I failed miserably at it.
I failed forward.
But the reason I got over it, is because I snapped out of it.
I had to.
A woman who walks in PURPOSE doesn't have to chase PEOPLE or OPPORTUNITIES.
Her LIGHT causes PEOPLE and OPPORTUNITIES to PURSUE her.
Leadership is really about making OTHERS better as a result of your presence, and making sure that impact lasts in your absence.
Also work hard at your passions and be YOU!
The right people who belong in your life will come find you and stay.
Do your thing!
You are what you DO, not what you SAY!
We still gotta learn things the hard way but don't ever forget to just treat others how you want to be treated.
When we all support each other, incredible things happen.
And at times just be silent, because that's when the answers will come to you.
To Be Continued.......

Tuesday, March 28, 2017

Day 109: FEAR!

Never trust your fears, they don't know your strength.
Our fear reveals what we care about the most.
I decided to just fail forward.
No more what if....for me.
I am going only one way in this life and that is to the top.
If you wanna join me, you are welcome.
If not, that's super cool as well.
I sincerely want to get to know people and build genuine friendships.
Yes on the way of course we all stumble upon some "rotten apples" but that's just life!
We are living in 2017 where all the doors are wide open to pretty much do whatever your heart desires.
Social Media is an incredible easy platform.
For so long I have been "behind the scenes" watching others rise to the top.
Why not ME?
I figured if I'm "hanging out" on Social Media anyways why not make money while "hanging out".
I am going to share my story, because my story is Unique to me.
Nobody has MY STORY and that makes me different.
If I can help 1 person with just sharing my story, that will be a blessing to me.
In life you will get chances at things so great, they scare you senseless, because you have no freaking clue how they are going to turn out, but either you jump that chasm and into the fullness of your potential, or you stay behind in Fear's comfy little lair, where you can from a safe distance, watch your dreams on the other side slip away from you.
The choice is yours.
Fears are stories we tell ourselves.
Stop being afraid of what could go wrong, and start being excited of what could go right.
In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take, relationships we were afraid to have, and the decisions we waited too long to make.
.....To Be Continued.....

Sunday, March 26, 2017

Day 108: Manifest Your Destiny

Did you know that journaling about your future can radically change the present?
Dreams really do come true, if you write them down as they've already happened.
Expressing gratitude for things we desire takes away our fears and worries about never having them.
There are so many ways to journal.
You can buy a fancy smancy journal and just start writing.
Personally that didn't really work for me.
I needed some more guidance.
I guess I am a slow learner but once I get going I usually keep going.
Slow and steady.
I found the perfect app on my phone called The Five Minute Journal.
It reminds me twice daily to write in the morning and at night.
In the morning you start out by writing down what you are grateful for.
Next your write down what you will do that day to make it a Fabulous day.
You finish by filling out your daily affirmation.
Then at the end of that day you share 3 amazing things that happened that day.
Completing it by saying how you could have made that day even better.
On top of all this you get a daily quote which you can share with others if you feel they need a little sunshine in their day.
Make this a habit and get very specific.
The world as you have created it, is a process of your thinking.
It can not be changed without changing your thinking.
When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears.
Small, Smart Choices + Consistency + Time = Radical Difference.
You are in competition with no one.
You don't have to play the game better than anyone.
You are just simply trying to be a better person than you were yesterday.
Don't forget YOU are the only YOU there is and will ever be.
Don't deny the world it's one and only chance to bask in your brilliance.
......To Be Continued.....

Saturday, March 25, 2017

Day 107: Failing Forward

Through my experience in Network Marketing, I've learned a lot about life, and leadership.
I've made mistakes. I've failed forward. All of the lessons I've learned have refined me and shaped me  into the leader I was created to be. My leadership has grown as I've grown up. Personal and professional growth is one of the greatest gifts this profession has provided me.
In Network Marketing and in life there can be a lot of ego but also a lot of rejection!
Humility is the ability to not be moved by flattery or by criticism.
Remember that confidence and humility are not in conflict with each other.
You can have both at the same time!
Always watch your attitude, don't give energy to a bad attitude.
Be willing to learn, grow, and accept feedback.
Don't compare yourself to others.
When we waste valuable energy comparing ourselves to others, we are overlooking our potential and the opportunity for growth in our own life.
We might be trying to emulate something someone else is doing, and in the meantime missing our own calling because we aren't doing what we are supposed to be doing!
We may have been given a way to do things bigger and better, but perhaps we've missed it as our focus is placed on the wrong things!
We are too distracted to notice the gifts in front of us because we are too busy focusing on what others have been gifted with!
We have to give that up.
Stop struggling, striving, comparing, and competing!
The death of contentment is comparison.
Competition takes you captive.
Focus on YOUR calling!
Exude energy and excitement!
Enthusiasm is a catalyst for success.
It's important that you exude energy and that you are authentic.
Always stay true to yourself!
Keep it real!
....To Be Continued....

Thursday, March 23, 2017

Day 106: Are you growing yourself daily?

Taking time for our personal and professional growth provides nourishment for our souls, and it fuels our minds. It makes us more effective for everyone in our lives.
If I could encourage all of you to implement one thing today, it would be to plan to wake up each day and just as you eat breakfast to fuel your body, begin to feed your mind, too!
You can only go as far as you grow!
I like to spend time each morning devoting attention to my personal and professional growth.
It's the perfect way to power-start my day and to prepare myself for new opportunities.
I like to end each day the same way, so I am thinking and believing positive things before my head hits the pillow.
Therefore I don't start or end my day with chaos, e-mails, TV, text messages, etc.
I feed and fuel myself with daily mediation/prayer, reading personal and professional development materials, and listening to positive and uplifting music.
I even fill in the "empty time" when I drive listening to audio books or free podcasts, making my car a "rolling University."
I listen to things that teach me how to become a better person and more effective leader.
I am extremely intentional about my daily self-programming so I am more effective as a wife, friend, sister, daughter and leader.
I realize that my business can only grow as much as I do.
I used to say things like: "Nobody is joining my Team," or "Everyone is quitting."
Wouldn't you know?
That's exactly what was happening!
Through personal development, I learned that your words are seeds.
Words are capable of bringing a harvest in your life - good or bad.
My words were either going to be fertilizer to my growing dream, or they would poison it.
Personal Development took me on a journey into a deep discovery about the power of my thoughts and words.
The day when I made up my mind and began to change my daily declarations, saying: "I have a fast growing team with eager like minded Gals, I became successful.
I am still a work in progress but I am loving this journey and just embracing it all.
......To Be Continued....

Wednesday, March 22, 2017

Day 105: Get clear on your mission

Focus on how you can serve others and help others throughout their journey.
Even when things get tough, keep going.
Just follow your gut.
What's your mission?
Go above and beyond.
Constantly engage with others.
Be relentless, don't compare yourself with others and keep it simple.
You gotta be consistent.
Don't be pushy but you gotta be assertive.
The journey of an entrepreneur will force us to dig into the depths of who we are,  in order for us to show up and make things happen.
There will be times that we feel super excited and fired up, and there will be times that things feel ridiculously tough and impossible.
This is all part of the process and we need to honor that because there is no way around that.
These tough times are there for a reason.
They help you to fine tune who you are, what you like and what you don't like.
You gotta keep doing what you are doing consistently.
The only way you can go from being down is up.
Last week I had set up and event on my Fit & Fabulous Meet Up Group and would you like to know how many peeps showed up?
Are you sitting down?
And please don't be jelly....
1 Fabulous Gal showed up and yes she is super duper cool but obviously it wasn't my intention to have just 1 gal showing up.
This experience kept things real and yes I was disappointed but I did not throw the towel in.
I kept going because we all Fail Forward and that's just life.
Yes I still made sales, no not from that one fabulous gal but it was just a lesson for me to keep going and always keeping Faith.
.......To Be Continued.....

Saturday, March 18, 2017

Day 104: Embrace the beginning of your Journey....

Throughout my life I was always in a rush.
Growing up in Holland, I was watching Dallas, Dynasty and Beverly Hills 90210 and I wanted to live  in America and be married to an All American blue eyed handsome fellow like PRONTO!
This didn't happen overnight and looking back I wish I embraced the journey a bit more and enjoyed every minute of the process to making that dream come true.
Yes I did enjoy but I also remember the lonely nights that I cried myself to sleep when I was single.
Dating was hard and fun at times.
You gotta weed out the frogs until you meet your prince.
This goes for everything else in life as well.
I studied and graduated with a Masters in Arabic and now I am a Corporate Flight Attendant and I sell Make-Up and Cosmetics through YOUNIQUE.
My point is: "never say never!"
Keep growing and every beginning is hard and maybe your intentions were different but just go with the flow.
I've experienced loss up close and personal.
I learned a lot from this experience.
I was angry, bitter and negative for a while and played the blame game and felt like a victim.
Eventually there was no other way than snapping out of that mindset and moving on.
Treat people like you want to be treated.
Pay attention to what they say and need.
Don't worry, if you help enough others, your needs will get answered as well.
Surround yourself with like minded people.
Don't apologize for not making time for people who pull you down.
Life is short and as beautiful as you make it yourself.
You will fall, but dust yourself off, and get back up and keep trucking.
Slow and steady.
Don't look back because you are not going backwards but always forward.
Enjoy the ride!
To Be Continued.....

Thursday, March 16, 2017

Day 103: Your inner weirdo

First off, what is a weirdo?
According to the Urban Dictionary a weirdo is a person who is considered strange to other people.
This person may do strange things, so this person can be considered a "weirdo"...
I admit that my level of weirdness is above the national average, but I'm comfortable with that.
I rather be weird than boring.
Why fit in when you were born to stand out? (by Dr. Seuss)
As entrepreneurs we need to learn how to embrace the fact that we are all "weird" for doing what we do.
In other words, we are all total weirdo's.
Most "normal" people wouldn't put up with all that it takes to actually build a successful business.
All the rejection, failure, self doubt, hard work, and loneliness when you're first starting out.
Don't get discouraged when all these "normal people" tell you no, or don't see what you see.
It's all a part of the process.
Just start celebrating your "inner weirdo" and get out there, and find other weirdo's just like yourself  to go out and build a freaking empire. 
It only takes a few....
The only thing standing between you and greatness is YOU!
Don't worry about that you might annoy your friends/family with all your posts on social media.
They have the luxury of unfollowing your posts and/or just scrolling past with some eye-rolling.
A lot of times your posts will be ignored.
Or you will just get a few likes/comments.
But you gotta push through that time and keep posting and being consistent and of course you gotta post value to others.
Make sure to put your ego aside, because it's not just about you anymore but it is about finding people who would love your products and actually get use out of them.
Also you gotta keep looking for people just like you, who would be great on your team.
You will find YOUR audience of people who want to see what you have to offer.
And your TRUE friends will stick with you and support you in any way, shape or form.
To Be Continued....

Tuesday, March 14, 2017

Day 102: Vulnerable

The definition of Vulnerable: 1) Capable of being physically or emotionally wounded.
2) open to attack or damage: assailable vulnerable to criticism.

Lately I've been feeling a bit vulnerable or even paranoid at times.
Because I open up my life on social media for all to watch/judge/criticize.
I always say to myself, I got nothing to hide, no secrets here.
And I am a big believer of being real and treating people how you want to be treated.
I love it when people are real with me.
Don't beat around the bush.
Tell me what you want and let's not waste time on focusing on what you don't want.
So many people tell me lately, oh I wish I could be more like you and just open up but I am shy or I am scared.
But don't you think, that maybe I am scared as well?
But I decided to step out of my comfort zone and out of my sheltered life of hiding.
Why do people just watch others open up and share with the world?
Those people are just wasting their own precious time.
If they decided to stop watching others and getting into action themselves, 1 year from now, they would have success of their own.
The only thing standing between greatness and you is YOU!
Free yourself to just BE YOURSELF!
If you are in Network Marketing aka Multi Level Marketing (MLM), it's called NetWORKmarketing,  not NetSLACKERmarketing.
When you set out to achieve something BIG, there will be FEAR, there will be SELF DOUBT!
If you are not feeling this, you are Super Human!!
Stick with it...push on.
Everything worth having, is worth working for, and the best things in life don't come easy.
Are you Flight or Fight?
Every single person either runs or fights through when things get hard.
Something I have experienced is that no matter which you are, you have the capability  to change it.
Most of us are runners (including myself).
Until I changed my mindset and realized I could fight for anything I believed in....including myself.
.....To Be Continued.....

Monday, March 13, 2017

Day 101: Photoshoot

The location of the photoshoot was at a beautiful home in Oceanside CA.
The crew was all female.
I had face-timed with my friend Marcy the  photographer earlier that morning and she saw Dobby my furry baby and had given me permission to bring him.
My friend and stylist Lyndell was already on location when I arrived.
I had brought some snacks for all of us and a bottle of bubbly.
Marcy broke out her bottle of bubbly first and we got to work.
We had music playing and Lyndell and I spread out all the outfits we had brought.
Marcy was setting up the lights and back drops.
The whole afternoon (we started around 2pm), flew by.
We shared lots of stories and lots of laughs.
Also I love the fact that we all worked really well together.
For one shot, Lyndell and I even swapped clothes.
Thankfully as Marcy, the photographer shot pix with her camera, Lyndell shot pix with my I-phone and her I-phone.
So we had pix instantly to look at.
Even Dobby (my furry baby) made it onto the pix.
After the shoot, Marcy went to dinner with her hubby and Lyndell and I stopped for coffee on our way home.
While having coffee I copied the pix she took on her I-phone to my phone, so she didn't have to go through that trouble herself.
What a fun afternoon that was!
The photoshoot was really just practice for the 3 of us, to see what works and what doesn't.
It's nice to just get creative without any pressure of paying clients.
Hopefully when Marcy edits and develops the pix, she will share them with me, without charging me.
But even if there is a charge, I'm very pleased with the existing I-phone pix already.
...To Be Continued....

Wednesday, March 8, 2017

Meditation

I always thought Meditation was just for "whackadoodles."
But I was mistaken big time!
Finally I found an app called the 10% happier app on my phone through the app store.
This app is initiated by Dan Harris from Good Morning America and it's specifically designed for skeptics like me and many others.
It is so true that the best ideas come to you in silence.
When we stop running and we take time to sit still and just pause, miracles happen.
Also the fact that guided mediations are so helpful with just our daily routine and our relationships/friendships.
I was always very busy with pretty much doing nothing.
Kind of like running around with my head cut off.
But not much productivity came out of it.
I started looking into time management techniques and so many different ways to get more useful things done.
I finally got to the bottom of my lifelong dilemma.
Meditation, especially when it's done in the morning after waking up, sets the pace for the day.
It really centers you and makes you less of a jerk/biotch.
Because it makes you reflect and go deeper within.
Before losing your cool, it makes you count to 10.
It makes you think twice before you verbally attack another person.
If another can easily anger you, it is because you are off balance with yourself.
We must create sacred time for ourselves to access the deepest, highest, wisest parts of ourselves.
When you can't control what's happening, challenge yourself to control the way you respond to what's happening. That's where your power is!
At some point you just have to let go of what you thought should happen and live in what's happening.
Instead of thinking about solving your whole life, you just think about adding additional good things.
One at a time. Just let your pile of good things grow.
Go with the flow!
To Be Continued.....

Tuesday, March 7, 2017

Day 99: Fear

Are you a Fighter or a Runner?
I was a runner for the longest time.
I was watching others from the comfort of my own home.
I was just a voyeur.
Gosh I wasted so much precious time by doing that.
Once I got off my lazy ass, and got busy myself, things started to flow.
Yes I was, and I am scared of criticism, I am only human!
But now I do realize that once you start facing your fears, miracles happen.
Not overnight though, and I am slightly obsessed with instant gratification.
You gotta want it bad enough and you gotta love it!
But I have to admit that my passion was never what I am sharing/selling right now.
I was never a make up Gal!
I only use mascara and sometimes lipstick.
But now I opened my eyes to the mission behind what I am sharing/selling.
The mission is to Empower others! 
To uplift and validate and ultimately build self-esteem in women around the world.
Try posting a selfie without make up right now.
That takes guts!
The real you is underneath your make up, but the key is to, find that special make up Younique-ly designed for you.
You gotta bring out your own Younique style.
Trust me you will be surprised how many others will relate to you and want to join your tribe.
Don't be scared to open up.
Just take baby steps and break down for you what you really want to pursue in this lifetime.
Fear is only temporary.
Regret lasts forever!
.....To Be Continued......

Monday, March 6, 2017

Day 98: Check Yourself!

First off nobody is better than anyone else.
We are all wanted on this planet.
There is room for everybody.
Think about the luck we have already had by making it here to this planet.
Your mom and dad had to be with each other at an exact time and I'm sure you know the story about the birds and the bees.
So, now we are all here let's just try to get along and make the best of it.
Start being grateful of the little things because believe it or not, you will create more of that by doing so.
Focus on being positive and happy.
Others like to be around positive and happy people.
Don't you?
Help others throughout the day, like open the door for an other person.
Pull out a chair.
Smile!
A smile goes a long way.
You don't know what other people have been through.
Here is a little example, when my late husband died and I walked out of the hospital being alone for the first time I felt so intensely sad and it was very weird for me to see others laughing and singing and smiling while I was so miserable.
I kind of wanted for all the other people out on the street who crossed my path to be as miserable as I was, because misery needs company.
It took me a while to realize that what had happened to me wasn't  written on my forehead and if you want to dig deeper it didn't really happen to me, because I was still alive but my late husband was dead.
I had to grieve and go through the stages but after all this, I had to get back up and wipe myself off and get back into the game of life.
....To Be Continued....

Sunday, March 5, 2017

Day 97: Where energy goes, energy flows

Have you ever noticed that after you buy a new car, all of a sudden you see that same car everywhere?
Have you ever noticed that when you complain a lot, all of a sudden you see people around you complaining as well?
This is the case with everything.
When people complain about the negativity in the world and on social media, it means that they gotta clean up their own world first.
You gotta look within, before you play the "blame game," before you point fingers.
A lot of people tend to focus on others.
But out of my own experience I have learned that is such a waste of your precious time.
And time is one of the only things we can not buy.
We gotta stop dwelling on the past and we gotta grow and learn and fail forward.
I was skyping with my father in Holland and he was complaining about feeling lonely.
Now this is not the first time that I hear this, so again I came up with solutions.
Of course my father who is 86 years young, did not want to hear my solutions.
He likes to be the victim and have a pitty party.
Of course I love my father more than life itself and always hear him out but today I really didn't want his negative energy to rub of on me, so I told him to call my mother instead.
Because he complains about my mother, asking me why she left him after 40 years of marriage.
I told him, that has nothing to do with me and they should really sort that out together.
I can not talk for my mother.
In life sometimes it is better to step away from negativity and diffuse the situation with better solutions.
I have noticed that leaders always find solutions.
If there is a problem, there is a solution and if not, you direct this  to others who will have a solution.
The bottomline is, you gotta choose and pick your battles wisely.
There are people on this planet who are not ready and/or willing to help themselves.
You can guide them and show them the way, but you CAN NOT do it for them.
......To Be Continued.....

Saturday, March 4, 2017

Day 96: I can't believe this is my life!

Have you ever had this thought?
Have you ever asked yourself; "is this really my life?"
I always wondered and was always envious of people who raved about their passions.
I never really knew what my passions were.
Yeah I knew that hiking was a big passion of mine, but getting lost in nature unfortunately doesn't pay the bills.
I was well aware of the fact that I enjoyed hanging out on Facebook, Instagram and Pinterest.
But again that doesn't pay the bills.
For so long, I wasted so much time following other successful Gals.
Then one day, my darling hubby John said to me: "You know Anna, it's all fine and dandy that you got so many friends & followers on social media but having all these friends & followers don't pay the bills.
A lightbulb went on in my head (I know, I know I'm a Blonde and maybe it took me a bit longer than the average bear).
I realized that I could combine all my passions together and make money that way.
I searched and searched and searched some more, until I found the right company for me.
As you know by now, I am a European Gal and I definitely wanted to join an International company with a very big powerful mission.
Personally I have always struggled with a lack of confidence.
I have read pretty much every personal development book out there.
Every day I still read and train my brain.
I have to stay consistent with my daily tasks.
But I saw a light at the end of the tunnel.
I realized I am Unique just by being me.
The only one who has my fingerprint is me.
So........drumroll.....I joined YOUNIQUE.
By just being my YOUnique self, I have made lots of Gals more confident with incredible make up and cosmetics.
At the same time this company has helped me with my confidence and I've made some fabulous Gal Pals and still meeting and making more lifelong friends.
......To Be Continued.....

Friday, March 3, 2017

Day 95: This is where I went wrong.

So, I have tried 2 MLM's (Network Marketing Companies) before.
I know, I know there is no trying but simply doing.
I think I get it now, why I wasn't successful at it.
Because I made the assumption that when I just posted about the products a little bit people would join me.
But now I know you gotta keep showing up consistently.
Meaning you gotta post daily several times.
You gotta open up about your life and dreams and goals.
You gotta share, share, share.
Share why you picked your company.
Why you love the products.
Show pix with you using the products.
Talk about how great you feel because of your products.
And I think this is where I went wrong, I assumed people would contact me to buy and/or join me but no I gotta straight out ask.
And this is where I felt before like selling, but now I know that if I seriously think they would benefit from the products and/or joining the company, I am actually doing them a favor.
So then it's not selling but helping others.
You see everything is about your mindset.
Because think about it, at the end of the day, we all sell something!
We sell ourselves in a way, because we want to be liked, loved.
We sell a movie we just saw or a great restaurant we just ate at.
So that's why in most Network Marketing Companies they always say; "we don't sell, we share!
Everything in life is all about presentation and how you deliver things and how you package it.
If you genuinely come from a good place, this will shine through.
Also while you are working on bettering your own life, you gotta share what works for you, so others can do the same.
It's funny because as long as you communicate and express yourself, others will reciprocate.
Sometimes I make the wrong assumption by assuming that others can read my mind.
But obviously others can't read your mind, so you gotta open up and speak up!
Have fun communicating!
....To Be Continued....

Thursday, March 2, 2017

Day 94: Separate Business page Yah or Nah....

Okay the question of the day is: "should you  have a separate business page on Facebook?
Here is my personal opinion.
I have found that having another page is just creating more work and having to do "another chore".
These days we all hammer on being "authentic" and "keeping it real" and just "Be You".
So why can't I just be ME on my one and only personal page?
Okay Yes I probably will start to annoy people with my new biz but you know what? That's me and that's me being REAL.
I think it's so hypocritical, that when someone just joins an MLM (network marketing company), they feel they gotta keep it on "the down low "until they start making money with it.
It's almost like we are embarrassed of the beginning stages.
Nobody comes out of the gate as a winner!
We all have to actually work for it.
It's called netWORKmarketing not netSLACKERmarketing.
And the minute someone is successful with their biz they shout it of the roof tops and their "up line" "mentor" "coach"  raves about their accomplishments and show everybody that they just "earned" a car, a bonus, a higher rank, etc.
Now people will start to pay attention!
Because now everybody thinks they can do the same.
They want to 'earn' the car 'the bonus' the higher rank'.
But they don't want to work for it and they assume they don't have to,  because they never saw or heard about all the hard work.
I think if we all , network marketers, break it down a bit more and keep it real, we will reach even more people.
So today I will do a Facebook Live and I will delete my separate biz pages and I will just be totally transparent about everything.
Like it or not!
Either you are with me or against me.
Either way it's all fine with me.
Peace out!

Wednesday, March 1, 2017

Day 93: Just let go and have fun!

It's funny that when I first started a Meet Up Group if was like ....crickets...silence, nobody signed up, so I gave up and figured okay that's just not for me.
But then a few months later I started another Meet Up Group just without any expectations and that group grew and blossomed rapidly.
I really think that my first group was created out of a scarcity mindset and I was kind of recruiting clients for my biz.
But my second time around I was looking for like minded Gals to build genuine lifelong friendships with.
It's interesting to me that at the end of the day we all just want to be liked and to make friends.
We all preferably want to meet Besties daily and be best friends with everyone we meet.
Unfortunately we don't live in a fairytale but we can certainly create our own version of our own fairytale.
After a lot of trial and error, I know what kind of gals I'm looking for in my life.
But I also realized that in order for me to attract this gals I had to become the person I want to attract.
Because the saying is true, like minded people attract like minded people.
You gotta grow and be eager to learn and better yourself daily.
You gotta be a best friend to others.
You gotta be sincere and mindful of others feelings and needs.
I started my Fit & Fabulous Meet Up group March 2016 and now almost a year later we grew into 400 and counting Fit & Fab Gals.
I've made some incredible besties through my group.
My mission is really to inspire others and to show that even after loss, heartache, trauma, divorce etc there is a wonderful life waiting to be lived.
Yes we all gotta slow down and give into the grieve and go through the stages of healing.
But we don't have to do that alone and we will find happiness again.
Some women lack confidence, and I was one of them.
But now after realizing that I am good enough and I matter this changed and I am growing into the woman I always wanted to be.
You know what the secret is?
Just be you and don't apologize for being you.
Embrace it and show the world your true colors.
Your power is just being YOU!